Is your wife, woman or lady of interest one too? Is so, this post is for you! Even if she isn't she will surely appreciate these things as well!
Note: Don't confuse romance with materialism. Hopeless romantics can be low-maintenance dates/partners. Instead of needing to wow them with expensive gifts, dinners, and vacations, you can please them with gestures that are less expensive. Taking late-night walks, cooking a fancy dinner at home, and writing love letters are just a few things you can do to keep your hopelessly romantic partner happy without breaking the bank.
Where are my creative men who understands a woman who lives for romance? Those little things i referred to below are sure ways to spice up the romance gentlemen.
Don't believe me try it. Here are some small gestures that will definitely brighten up her day which in return will benefit you in the long run...or short :)
Send her flowers to work or home for no reason other than you thinking of her (key words send them) It adds just a little more thought behind it.
For those just trying to pursue one... Have the card say your secret admirer...or will you go out with me. May sound corny but it works. You want to stand out and make her think about You by doing something the next guy probably isn't doing.
Couples with children and tight schedules or finances ...switch things up and prepare her a bath for the evening...you cook and put the kids in the bed while she's relaxing in bubbles. Wanna keep things good..do this a couple days a week or at least once a week. So there wont be too many "im too tired baby" days.
Going the extra mile >Once the kids are asleep, lay your favorite dress out for her to slip on. Put on something nice for her and add her favorite cologne on that she likes. Light some candles, set the table and have a romantic candle light dinner at home. Play some Teddy Pendagrass and slow dance in your living room... Just wait and see how long it takes to turn off the lights...and get a lil closer!
Wanna change the scenery? Don't just go to the show or out to eat and then get a nice room. Talk with her friends and see what she likes. Have an evening planned out. (key word; planned). Don't ask her, what would she like to do? ...surprise her and already have the evening planned. Examples: A limo ride through the city while sipping on some champagne or a carriage ride. Wow her now...and trust that you will be wowed in the end. :)
Some of you men might already be doing just fine in this area...and if that's the case then GREAT! For those of you who aren't... You do not have to see the world as a hopeless romantic does in order to relate to one. Your perception--as well as theirs--has merit, and is worthy of your appreciation and attention.
Women if not already... these things can also be done for him. There are few but definitely some men who are Hopeless Romantic as well. Replace the flowers with a surprise lunch to his work..you can take it to him or get it delivered... everything above can be done for him as well.
Remember the essence of romance is doing something that you would not normally do, simply because you care. You may never buy a bunch of flowers for yourself, and that's exactly what makes it special. The recipient knows you did it just to show you care, and for no other reason.
She says, I'm no expert but...If you are and/or with someone who is captivated by love stories, candlelight dinners, and old-fashioned chivalry...and you and your significant other have very different ideas of what romance should be, but this can help you two come to terms with your differences...
This post is refreshing... A man who is seeking advice like this would be even more refreshing; NOT to say that there are NO men interested in wooing their woman but in my personal opinion and experience("personal" humble opinion BECAUSE afterall I am no scholar)these men are sadly far & few between.
ReplyDeleteI realize part of the issue, for me, would be environment... I don't doubt there are men who are willing AND in a position to charm a girlish grin, out of me, and goosebumps right up the sleeve of my arm... ... ... I just haven't met any recently *pausing* well except my ex - and him I no longer want. lbvvs
Those men who are doing, or willing to do, I applaud and appreciate you!
I totally agree with you... They are very far & few between but they are out there.
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